The legal and social media battle over the gender and name change of Dwyane Wade and his ex-wife Siohvaughn Funches-Wade‘s transgender child begins next week, and you are not ready for the drama loading.
Siohvaughn Funches-Wade rushed to court last month to stop Dwyane from legally changing their 15-year-old son/daughter’s name and gender until he/she turns 18 and can make his/her own decisions. Funches took the initiative because she believes Wade and his current wife, Gabrielle Union are exploiting Zaya’s gender for money and not the child’s interest.
Wade hopped onto social media to blast Funches and called her an absentee mother who does not care about her kid’s needs. The outburst did not just end on social media because Dwyane followed up with the lawsuit. Presently, Dwayne is asking the LA court to ditch Funches’s petition because her allegations are libelous, nonsensical, and unsubstantial. He also added that he has the sole responsibility to make the decision for Zaya and not seek permission from her mother, hence the case should be deemed frivolous and thrown out.
To Wade and Gabrielle, they are doing the ultimate thing every parent should be doing, supporting their minor child to change gender and name, and if Funches feels otherwise, then she is the insane one who doesn’t want her child’s happiness. BS!
Via Daily Mail;
Retired NBA star Dwyane Wade has gone back to court to fight his ex-wife’s petition to stop their transgender daughter from legally changing her name and gender.
Wade, 40, argued that he had the ‘full authority’ to ‘make decisions on behalf’ of Zaya, 15, when he was awarded custody of his two children in 2011 against ex-wife Siohvaughn Funches-Wade, RadarOnline reports.
Funches-Wade had filed an objection to the Los Angeles County Superior Court in November over Zaya’s name change, accusing Wade of exploiting their daughter for financial gain.
In his latest filing, Wade said the allegations were ‘unsubstantiated.’ He also claimed that his ex failed to prove why the name change wouldn’t be in Zaya’s best interest.
Wade argued that a name change would ultimately allow Zaya to have an easier time: ‘from simple introductions and food orders, to applying for a driver’s license and filling out college applications.’
The latest row between the Wade and his ex-wife began when Wade filed papers last August to allow Zaya to legally change her name from Zion Malachi Airamis Wade to Zaya Malachi Airamis Wade.
In response to the filing, Funches-Wade filed her opposition, saying she wants Zaya to wait until she’s 18 before changing her name and alleging that Wade was pushing for the name change for business.
‘I have concerns that (Dwyane) may be pressuring our child to move forward with the name and gender change in order to capitalize on the financial opportunities that he has received from companies,’ she said in her legal filing.
She also cited a conversation in April during which she claims Dwyane told her ‘that a lot of money had been already made and that additional money will be made in relation to our child’s name and gender issue.’
‘(Dwyane) told me that he intended to make our child very famous due to the name and gender issue and also informed me that there would be endorsements/contracts associated therewith,’ she claims.
Wade has called the petition ‘libelous’ and ‘nonsensical’ as he urged the court last month to allow for the name change so his daughter can ‘live more comfortably and honestly in all aspects of her life.’
The former Miami Heat star also accused her of cherry picking details from their custody battle, referencing documents she submitting saying that Wade would seek input from her when making major decisions regarding their two children.
One of the documents reportedly said: ‘Wade shall discuss with and obtain input from Funches on the major decisions affecting the care, welfare, activities, health, education, and religious upbringing of their two children.’
The documents Funches-Wade submitted, however, never stated that Wade actually needed permission from her to make any decision, as he has full custody of them, RadarOnline reports.
The former couple are due to see each other during a court hearing next week
Following Wade’s criticisms against her petition, Funches-Wade snapped back, telling DailyMaili.com her children feel the ‘excruciating pain’ of their parents’ divorce and said her ex-husbands comments were ‘completely untrue and very hurtful.’
She added the entire situation is about their child, who ‘cannot protect and shield themselves’ as the world has a ‘front row seat to your failures.’
She only wants to shield her children from the ‘tragic events’ unfolding in the limelight, including bullying.
Funches-Wade said in a statement: ‘Thank you for the opportunity to respond to the recent derogatory statements made by Dwyane Wade, my ex-husband, about me as an African American woman, a mother and a believer in Jesus Christ.
‘First, these statements are completely untrue, and second they are very hurtful. Not only to myself, but more importantly to my children, who are as human, and subject to hurt and pain, as all other children, despite any lifestyle that they have been afforded.
‘They too, like many other children, have experienced the excruciating pain and unique challenges that children suffer when their parents are divorced.
‘I will not add to that pain by now responding publicly with malicious, or hate-filled, comments to Dwyane, despite his decision to say these harmful untruths about me
She added: ‘Dwyane is still the dad of my children and for my babies’ sake, I choose to refrain from speaking negatively about him.
‘If I had anything at all publicly to say to him it would only be one thing, ‘I forgive him again.’
‘It would only be this one thing, because this matter isn’t about him, or me, it’s about a child who otherwise cannot protect and shield themselves from the negative consequences that encompass living your life in view of the world.
‘Yes, the world will watch your triumphs, but they will also have a front row seat to your failures.
‘There are countless full-grown famous adults who have experienced this, and suffered severe consequences stemming from anxiety, depression and others are no longer with us because they took their own lives under this public pressure and scrutiny.’
In another statement against his ex, Wade lashed out at the notion he was pushing the decision and also took aim at his ex, calling her an ‘absentee parent’ who was selfishly putting herself at the center of their daughter’s transition.
‘Zaya is not the same 3 year (sic) child anymore and she is screaming that to the world but most importantly to her mother! No one in our house would ever force Zaya or any of our children to do anything against their will, much less force an identity on them.
‘This isn’t a game for my family and definitely not for Zaya. This is her life!’
Funches-Wade and Wade were married between 2002 and 2010. They also share older son Zaire, 20.
Wade filed for divorce in 2007, the same year he met Gabrielle Union, who he went on to marry in 2014.
Since 2019, the two described how Zaya came out to them, and how they now know her as her ‘authentic self’.
‘Our (then) 12-year-old came home…and said, ‘Hey, I want to talk to you guys. I think going forward, I’m ready to live my truth and I want to be referenced as she and her and I would love for you guys to call me Zaya,” he told Ellen DeGeneres during an appearance on her show.
In a later interview with People, he said Zaya’s transition gave him ‘hope’. He first spoke of her transition in 2019 on Matt Barnes’ podcast, All The Smoke.
‘I had to look myself in the mirror. When my son at the time was three years old and me and my wife start having conversations about us noticing that he wasn’t on the boy vibe that [older brother] Zaire was on.
‘I had to look myself in the mirror and say ‘what if your son comes home and tells you he’s gay?’ What are you going to do?
‘You’re going to talk about strength and courage. My 12 year old has way more than I have. You can learn something from your kids. In our household, that’s all we talk about. We talk about making sure our kids be seen by each of us. We want them to be whoever they feel they can be in this world. That’s our goal.
‘I watched my son, from day one, become into who she now eventually has come into.
‘And for me, it’s all about: Nothing changes with my love. Nothing changes in my responsibilities. So, all I had to do now is get smarter, educate myself more. And that’s my job,’ he said.
For Gabrielle and Dwyane, changing Zaya’s gender is all about fame and winning in social media marks as the best parent. Because irrespective of how terrible of a parent Funches is, her concerns are legit. Indeed, the constant social media discussion on Zaya’s gender is not needed, as well as the brand deals it comes with. Zaya is a kid and should be treated as such.